Mary Brehon Gay celebrated her 84 ^th birthday by returning to the arms of God on February 4, 2009. Born in Norfolk, Virginia to the late Joseph H. and Mary Donaldson Brehon, she was the 10 ^th of 12 siblings. She is survived by her husband, Odie M. Gay, Jr.; a daughter, Irene Clark and four sons, Odie III (Elizabeth), Karlton, Errol (Kewanee) and Brehon (Crystal); two siblings, Delena (Clarence) Turner and Vernon (Margaret) Brehon; a host of grand, great grandchildren and other relatives. Four adopted daughters, Alice Haynes, Bernice Plumber, Carolyn Jackson and Carolyn Bethea also called her Mom.

She was an honor graduate of Booker T. Washington High School, and attended Norfolk State University. She worked s a secretary at various businesses until her retirement as secretary at Rosemount Middle School in Norfolk.

"Mary B." was a member of First Baptist Church, Bute Street. She served on the Missionary Board and as Den Mother for the Cub Scouts. She taught Sunday and Bible Schools. Until her illness, Mary spent her time visiting family and friends and caring for family members. She will always be remembered for her kindness to others, her attention to details, and her warm and loving disposition.